The challenge
of church change is considerable. What
believers love about their faiths are their immutable absolute rules and practices. The Ten Commandments written for an agrarian
bronze age world when oxen were a really big talking point are thousands of
years past their use by date. The New
Testament is full of ridiculous rules and statements about divorce,
homosexuality and sex generally.
The Pope
has decided to call for a Synod of Bishops, which is to have a two-stages. First, an Extraordinary General Assembly in
2014, intended to define the “status quaestionis” and to collect the
bishops’ experiences and proposals for living the Gospel of the Family “in a
credible manner” (whatever that means).
Secondly, there will be an Ordinary General Assembly in 2015 to seek
working guidelines in the pastoral care of the person and the family. Read the whole thing at http://www.catholic.org.au/
Will this
be a big bang or a damp squib? Will it
enable to the Church to modernise its antediluvian views on sex or not? Time will tell.
So on the
Australian Catholic Bishops web site is a consultation document. The document starts by stating the obvious,
things have changed in the family.
Cohabitation without marriage, same sex unions, surrogacy, mean that
certain Sacraments in the words of the Bishops, are “showing signs of weakness
or total abandonment”. I can hear the
godless cheers going up now. This is not
to mention other issues which are centuries old like contraception, women's ordination, priestly celibacy and
abortion.
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| Ordination of women in 2011 Anaheim California. An issue NOT countenanced in the current reform process. |
The debate
of the issues does not start off in a promising way because it starts with
scripture. “The citation of
biblical sources on marriage and family in this document are essential
references”. I find that a bit of turn off to begin
with. The document then gives a potted
history of the sacred texts that have informed the Catholic Church’s views of
sex and family. It includes that famous
encyclical Humanae Vitae by the
crusty reactionary Pope Paul VI which, against expectations, outlawed
contraception. It was a complete cock
up. Imagine the strife the Church could
have avoided if they had been able to embrace some change in the face of
modernity? Imagine if they could avoid
the almost universal contravention of Catholic contraception principals by
women in the West? What would have
happened if divorce was kosher for Catholics? The whole controversy, misery and
utter crap that have bedevilled the Church on the issue of sex would have been
starkly lessened. Is this moment when
the Church, in the face of fundamental problems, grasps the nettle?
The
consultation document then moves to 9 main questions. What is to be done about cohabitation without
marriage, same sex unions, surrogacy, divorced parents and the like? What does the Church do with the kids from
these quaintly labelled, “irregular” families?
The great unmentioned in these issues are contraception and
abortion. The latter will never be
countenanced but it is time the former got a tick. Would that be too much change to expect? I
think it will be because the document talks about “natural” contraption and
making families more open to having more children. These priestly men really live in a rarefied
world of their own.
A number of
the questions have to do with education and catechism. What do you young Catholics know and
believe? I think the problem is almost
universal ignorance and indifference to the complex liturgy and rules of their
faith. That must a concern for the Church
and this comes out in the consultation document.
Let me
finish with a story. A close relative of mine has spent a lifetime of very
fruitful activity in the Uniting Church.
He has done a lot of good through that institution. He is a long time widower in his late
eighties. He wanted to hook up with a widowed
woman also in the Uniting Church. A
wedding was not really relevant or on the cards. They are now living together with the
blessing of their Ministers. It is
wonderful. Far from being vilified and
shunned for “living in sin” they continue their rewarding and productive Church
activities without blame or censure. Catholicism
has to see examples like this and grow from them.
Catholicism
is beginning to face its number one demon – sex. Can it change? What do you think?
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Can
Catholicism reverse its change aversion?
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What
will it do on contraception and divorce? What about women's ordination and celibacy?
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Will
this process be a fundamental redirection of the ship or another lost
opportunity?
Over to you
guys.



